Ps and Js tear their hair out when they try to bond, or even work together. Witness:
J-student: So ... exactly what did you want for this huge term assignment?
P-teacher: Oh, I don't know. Show me what you've got at the end of the term and we'll go from there.
J-student: But how will I know if I've done enough work?
P-teacher: Well, it really depends on what it looks like when you get there. Just work on it until you finish it.
J-student: Can't you give me some clue as to what you are looking for?
P-teacher: Look, you are old enough now, and intelligent enough to know how to guide your own learning.
J-student: (wanders off, commences to pull hair out and mutter uncontrollably)
P-teacher: I don't know why he keeps trying to box me in. I really would rather he just do whatever it takes to get a good feel for the material.